colors that keep me going

I used to keep a blog.
It was about life in Chittagong, Bangladesh -- about experiences at the Asian University for Women, and happenings on the streets, and meals in hospitable homes, and escapes to the rural beauty of this shonar (golden) Bengal. Writing was a necessary escape too -- a chuti (vacation) that was healthy and therapeutic, along with cooking. Since taking a new, more intense position at AUW as director of the academic EFL program in which I taught last year, neither cooking nor writing have received enough of my attention. So I'm going to write this post, then bake some Irish soda bread.

I suppose it has only been two months since I last wrote, but my writer's block would suggest it has been much longer. Just to get myself back into it, I'm going to keep my musings simple today: I'm going to praise the vibrant colors that have been my drug this year. Doses of orange, teal, coffee, and grass are a visual therapy more easily obtained than a five-course meal or a page of prose.

ORANGE:
I went to Dhaka recently and finally bought one of the kantha blankets made by Hand and Cloth (please check out this wonderful business). Kantha is the traditional Bangladeshi design of a two-sided blanket made from vintage sari cloths.  In Dhaka, I was spending the weekend with my friend who began Children's Uplift Programme, for homeless women and children in Dhaka. I had visited CUP a bit over a year ago and the women who were then just learning to sew kantha, as an alternative to the risks and abuses of street work, are now empowered by their livelihoods at Hand and Cloth. I bought my kantha blanket at North End Coffee roasters in Dhaka, and perhaps for the first time in my life, I strayed from my tendency to buy blue and green bedding, and I went for orange and red. I'm very happy with that decision.

DARK ROAST BROWN:
For me the drug of coffee is not solely in the caffeine, but in the entire sensory experience from the rich color of the beans, to the fragrance released while grinding, to the hot mug in my hands that gently draws me out of sleepy comas.  North End Coffee Roasters has transformed the coffee addict's experience of life in Bangladesh. Started by Rick Hubbard it is the first and only coffee roasting company in Bangladesh. They're now delivering to Chittagong upon request, so every couple weeks or so I put in an order from AUW professors and a nice man named Monir shows up in a rickshaw at my apartment building with bags of coffee beans.

TEAL:
Soon, I'll write more about apartment 7-A in South Khulshi, but for now let's establish that I'm quite enamoured by this place I'm blessed to call home. The living room colors practically jump to greet me every time I enter, no matter how wilted I am. With some teal cushions picked out by my roommate Fatema, and an orange Pakistani cloth I picked up at a fair last year, we had our accent colors established. Coffee brown woods and tan sofa cushions provide the canvas for the spots of sea and sun.

GRASS GREEN
Finally, as long as there is daylight in South Khulshi, our hill outside needs no assistance in expressing it's audaciously perfect green flora. I see it outside my window when I wake up, and from the living room when I'm typing emails on a grey screen. Green. It's the color Bangladesh does best.

Sri Lanka

As the sun rose over what have been called the “killing fields” of Sri Lanka, I fought to keep my eyes opened and focused on the scenes rushing past the window of my bus to Jaffna.

 The journey here had been a long one so far - as most in South Asia admittedly are. The third term of teaching English in the Access Academy at AUW had come to a close the 14^th of July, at which point Ms. Christa’s desk contents were emptied into a box that I’ll reclaim in three weeks. My apartment was vacated, and I was off to Dhaka, and from there to the northwest to visit my parents. After a delightful three-day visit in Rajshahi, the seven-hour Pabna Express brought me back to Dhaka, where I boarded a bus to Kolkata with one of my Sri Lankan students, Aara. We crossed the Bangladesh-India border by foot, completing necessary paperwork and successfully avoiding payment of bribes, then resumed the bus journey taking us to the massive railway station in Kolkata, where we crammed ourselves and our luggage into a cozy little birth for a thirty hour journey south to Chennai. From Chennai, we hopped over an insignificant portion of the Indian ocean on an airplane that landed us in Colombo, Sri Lanka. I spent a fantastic afternoon with my other Sri Lankan student, Nima, cartwheeling along the “Gold Face” - the impressive stretch of beach along the capital’s western border.

 Before meeting Aara and Nima in my classroom one year ago, I would not have thought it any significant utterance to refer to them both equally as ‘Sri Lankans’. At least not until Aara enlightened me one Thursday afternoon in my office, exclaiming, “Ma’am, I have never thought to call myself ‘Sri Lankan” - because my identity was as a ‘Tamil girl’. But here in Bangladesh, for the first time, I am ‘Sri Lankan’ and so is Nima - but I have never before been friends with a Sinhala girl...”

These two young women - from the two ethnic groups that have been engaged in civil war for 26 of Sri Lanka’s 39 short years since independence - forged a deeply inspiring friendship at AUW. Not merely symbolic, it was genuine, and as one who has little reference for what post-war reconciliation means, I might never understand what degree of strength this action of the two students actually took. 

  In my office, Aara had gallantly processed not only her shifting identity, but the effect of the Sri Lankan civil war on her Tamil people and her nation as a whole. So when, toward the end of our academic year, she suddenly extended the invitation for me to visit her nation and her family, I was eager to continue the learning I’d been privileged to begin acquiring through my Sri Lankan students. So by this series of events, I now found myself in the final hours of a three-day journey from Bangladesh to the northernmost Sri Lankan province of Jaffna. The bus ride had been grueling, and I was finally conceding defeat in my futile attempts to sleep when Aara sidled up next to me. She’d switched seats with another so she could point out to me the war-ravaged land being gradually lit by a pale sun, and I was grateful to have a knowledgable narrator.

I will not try to give a history of the struggle between the Liberation Tigers of the Tamil Eelam (LTTE) and the Sinhala-majority government military (Sri Lankan Army - SLA), although if you're ignorant as I was a year ago, please take some time to learn. A controversial documentary by the UK’s Channel 4, with  footage of the undeniably atrocious war crimes was produced recently and strongly opposed by Sri Lanka's government. The war narrative has many sides and is worth studying, if we ever hope to learn from our grave human errors. (See a BBC link here.) Some of the events that led to the devastating climax of the fighting in early 2009 too closely match those that preceded the Rwandan genocide of ’94. And it is not by error that the designation “Killing fields of Sri Lanka” echoes the memory of events during the horrific rule of Cambodia’s Khmer Rouge.

With Aara’s warning that we were now entering the lands in which the majority of fighting took place, I began intently scanning the horizon. For the first few miles, there was simply nothing to see. But this emptiness, and total abandonment of such a great expanse of land on such a little island, was strange and disconcerting. Actually, the land was nearly empty, save for government’s soldiers patrolling the roads, but at five in the morning, these were the only human presence. The camouflage uniforms made me recall the checkpoint we’d encountered around 2am, at which point I'd been asked to exit the bus with my passport, and provide the army officers with some photos and my letter of invitation. I was interviewed briefly, and a form was filled out with my personal information, after which the satisfied guards dismissed their groggy visitor. 

 These roads and fields that had formerly been the strongholds of the Tamil militia were now heavily patrolled by those who had been their mortal enemies. I couldn’t tell whether some of the barricades along the roads had originally been set up by the LTTE, or were more recent creations of the military.

 Aara pointed out the bullet-ridden and bombed out buildings, voicing her surprise that they hadn’t all been torn down yet. “The government doesn’t want it to look like there was a war here,” she explained. Understandable, I thought, but is it still somehow insensitive? I tried to read Aara’s face for her sentiment on this matter but I sensed her mind was consumed with other thoughts and memories - those of an insider.

 We passed many cows. In India, I had joked with Aara about how the way you can tell that you’ve crossed from Bangladesh into India is by the look of the cows - skinny and sad in Bangladesh, where they’re kept for a while then served up at a Muslim feast, but fat and proud in India, where they’re revered by Hindus as sacred beings. Aara pointed to the cows of Hindu Jaffna and remarked, “But see ma’am, even the cows here are skinny, because after the war, not all of the owners returned, so many animals just wander.”

 Soon we came upon an area I had dreaded seeing, for the confirmation it would supply for how repulsive humans at war can be. “Land mines,” said Aara, gesturing toward the yellow tape marking off many acres of deadly territory. She had written in her final essay about the discrimination faced by Tamil war widows in the northern and eastern parts of Sri Lanka. As part of her evidence for how social norms have so ostracized this vulnerable sub-population, she provided stories of the widows who have all-too-willingly volunteered to take jobs as land-mine sweepers.

 It was hard to avoid painting upon this landscape the gruesome images of 2009 that I’d seen portrayed on the Channel 4 documentary some months before. The actual scene before me was quite benign, but little things stood out - like the posters of the smiling Sinhala president plastered upon every building, here in this defeated Tamil town.

 And I noticed how all the houses being erected in the process of rebuilding northern Sri Lanka were all being made from the same prototype. A little song about the creation of the first American suburban neighborhoods suddenly popped into my head… little boxes on a hillside...made of ticky-tacky, little boxes, little boxes, little boxes all the same.

 That bus ride from Colombo to the north was the only time during my week in Sri Lanka that we dwelt on the sad, surreal quality of the post-war state. As we saw the first signs of approaching Aara’s seaside town of Point Pedro, my student brightened up at the joyful thought of seeing her family for the first time in a whole year. The sun rose high in the sky that day, and by evening time we were carefree swimmers in a clear blue sea.

The monsoons have returned

Like clockwork, the rain is beginning to make its daily afternoon rounds in Chittagong. Seated at my desk, I notice the blue morning sky has turned to a pale grey. Around lunchtime, I step out of the office to descend the stairs to where a young boy waits in front of the building with two bags of our little cardboard box orders of rice, dal, and curries from a local food stand. Out of the air-conditioned office, I notcie the air has become heavier, and significantly warmer. The thought of taking the stairs back up to the fifth floor, rather than the elevator, never seems like a viable option in this heat. No sooner have I stepped back into the cool office, than I am aware of the meditative resounding of sheets of rain drenching the windows, balconies, and the streets below. I wonder whether the sudden downpour has caught the delivery boy unawares, and I picture him sprinting back to his twenty-cent-an-hour job. If he is anything like my brothers and I were at his age, he's welcoming the warm rain with arms stretched out like a wide grin. Back at my desk, I hear joyful shrieks of kids on the street below. They're standing under the steady streams of water tumbling from our building's rain pipes. Like waterfalls. And into my mind the memories come flooding back...

Ahead is a long exerpt of an old college essay about the Bangladeshi origins of my obsession with water (feel free to bail out, as it gets quite off the topic of monsoons)...

Water

Throughout my childhood, the monsoon rains of Bangladesh drenched a third of my memories each year. My brothers and I loved the rains. Far from sending us indoors, hands gripping the windows' metal bars, the rain was a friend beckoning us to play. The weather was not merely an arbitrary addition to our normal games. Instead, we focused the entire afternoon's play around our wet guests -- the "waterfalls" created by the roof's draining pipes, the deep puddle in the indentation between the football goal stones, the seemingly bottomless wells of the rain-filled oil barrels -- we named them all, and remembered their names even after their several month hiatus during the dry season. 

Perhaps the arrival of the fresh clean rain puddles seemed so right and necessary because of what covered the streets in between the cleansings. During the Islamic festival of Eid, following the holy month of Ramadan, my brothers competed with their friends Chris and Jonathan Adkins to compare the depth of puddles on the grounds outside our houses. These pools, however, depended not on rain clouds as their source, but drew from the hanging carcasses of sacrificial goats and cows slaughtered outside every gate in Mohammadpur. Looking into the opaque scarlet blood puddles on my walks to school in the morning, I could not see the reflection of a smiling freckled face. It did not occur to me then that dead animals and blood pools, or crippled beggars and street kids, would not have been images included in my childhood had I spent its entirety in Maine. 

When I was seven, I once stumbled upon a dead baby next to the dumpster across from Suzie Adkin's house. It was a "hartal" day -- the frequent occurence of a nation-wide strike in Bangladesh, when the roads are cleared of motor vehicles. On these days, David, Benjamin, and I were allowed to roller-skate freely on the streets. This particular afternoon, Benjamin was crouching incomspicuously behind the rear rubber tires of a rickshaw, holding onto the painted portrait of a Bollywood star. My brother's trick was to catch a free, exhilerating pull on his skates when the rickshawallah began peddling off in search of passengers. Upon noticing that his apparently empty carriage had resisted him by thirty extra kilograms, the man would begin a cruel (but probably justified) game of peddling fast with shart twists, turns, and jolts, attempting to disengage the non-paying parasite from his rickshaw. I was admittedly not as brave nor quite as mischievous as my elder brother, so on this day, I skated away from his dangerous game. 

I noticed that the crows had dragged something from the trash pile to the street. I saw the small doll-like form and curiously came to it, scattering the black crows back to their telephone wires to watch greedily over Iqbal Road. She was a very small brown baby, face-down, with tiny fingers. I remember standing over her, unstable on my red skates, frozen and staring for a short while. Later, at home, I told my mother. Mom said the baby was probably still-born, and I guessed she had belonged to the family in the make-shift dwelling across from Suzie's house. I was sad, but I couldn't cry. I went home and washed my hands and face for dinner. 

In the next rainy season, my reflection in the monsoon puddle between the football goal stones showed a different child from the year before. Grow a little, and both a little more aware, and more unsure. Increasingly, the images of the suffering afround me came to hold distinct frames in my memories. In the back of my mind developed a fear that I would become calloused and indifferent. I looked back on the images hoping for a glint of meaning, and I was faced with opaqueness, like the street blood, which never returned a satisfying reflection of the clouds, trees, or faces looming above.

In June of 1995, my brothers and I peered excitedly out of a small ovular window at the shadow of our jet moving over Maine's Casco Bay in the final minutes of our journey back to a home we hardly remembered. We gawked at the fascinating foreign land below, with the dark blue water, tiny sailboats, and funny pointed-roof houses. 

I was about to re-meet my grandparents, and was a little ashamed of the band-aid still stuck on the bridge of my nose. I touched the little plaster reminder of the first of many memorable swimming accidents I would experience in my life (though non managing to dissuade me from that fantastic sport). Only hours before leaving Dhaka, my family had taken our last trip to the American Club pool. Who knew how long it would be before we returned to Bangladesh? So I had made up my mind -- this was my last chance to attempt the brilliant swimming trick that I had seem performed by an especially cool teenage girl at the pool on numerous occasions. Not until joining swim team my last year of high school would I learn that this swimming skill was called a "flip-turn." After three years of studying my anonymous role model in the act, I believed the moment had come for me to imitate. So, as a farewell to the pool where I had learned to swim, I kicked my legs and moved my arms as Dad had taught me, approaching the pool's edge, and attempted my first flip-turn. I over-rotated and my nose met the metal ladder. 

I'm sure it looked worse than it was. I remember crying at my own blood dripping onto my hands. A man ran to me, extending his clean white handkerchief. Seeing how, without hesitation he had sacrified it to be stained by a stranger made me cry all the more. I didn't try another flip turn for almost ten years.

I did keep swimming though. That summer of 1995 I began my love affair with Maine and her waters. Almost every day between Memorial Day and Labor Day, my dad piled us into the blue Plymouth Voyager to drive to the Mills, as everyone called the favorite Damariscotta Lake swimming spot. While Mom read under the crab apple tree, Dad would swim out to the small island a half mile into the lake. Year after year, one of the most anticipated summer activities for Damariscotta kids was jumping off the green bridge into the fresh sun-warmed water. 

One time at the Mills, I jumped off the bridge and hit a boat. 

It could have been avoided. I should have hear the horn warning sounded by the young couple taking their joy ride in a white motor boat. The image of the boat below me has seared my memory because of its shocking effect. Every other time that I've jumped off that bridge, I have been aware of my own relfection coming toward me from below. Usually, my falling body and the joyfully waving arms and legs of my reflection meet in the ecstatic explosion of water displaced by our union. On that day though, my reflection was not below me, and this unexpected turn of events threw me into a frantic confusion. I tried to fly. I moved my arms, as if in water, but physics had already determined that my mass was no match for the air compared to the control I'm given in water. So, rather than into my reflection, I found myself staring for a split second into the petrified faces of a young man and woman who were just as panicked as I. My foot, then my thigh, hit against the pointed bow of the white boat and I bounced off into the water, where I scrambled fast toward shore. 

All was fine. I was only bruised, and the boat-owner has probably since suffered more stress around bridges than I ever will. I always knew that it could have turned out much worse, and as it went, it made better story than had it all been avoided.

....

My relationship with water has evolved as all romances do. I finally learned how to perform flip-turns, how to teach various physics-informed swimming strokes to kids at summer camp, and how to rescue a drowning victim in deep or shallow water. I have learned that the surface tension property of water is responsible for capillary action, moving nutrients through our tiny blood vessels. I habitually drink the recommended two liters of water per day. I swim to the island with my father in our Maine summers. David skillfully rigs the Eleanore in the harbor; Benjamin and I marvel at our younger brother's navigation around the ledges of John's Bay as he controls the angle of the sail against the wind. I have learned more about rain shadows, marine biology, coastal contamination, and tidal patterns than ever crossed my mind in those early years of becoming enamored by puddles and seas. 

Still, there's much to be learned, and today I am compelled to continue reaching and listening, not always confident of which way to look or move. God in nature seems less knowable but more enticing than ever before. Images of suffering and memories of dead babies often leave me staring into a pictureless pool. The ancient voice of the ocean is sometimes silent also.

In the summer of '07, I leaned backward off a small motor-dingy at a diving site near the Perhentian Islands off the coast of Malaysia. With a regulator in my mouth attached to an oxygen tank so I could breath, a mask sealed around my face so I could see, and fins on my feet so I could move, I dropped back and broke the surface of the water. I relaxed my body and, taking a few deep breaths, bobbed upright for a moment contemplating the marvelous task ahead of me. I would leave this realm of gravity's inescapable pull, and take my own supply of air, defying nature to sink twenty meters beneath the surface of the South China Sea. I began to descend, deeper and deeper until the time came to neutralize my position in the water. The pressure had compressed the air in the flotation attached to my wetsuit and I began to sink faster. With my left index finger, I pressed a button to release air from my tank into the floatation and my sinking came gently to a stop. I rolled forward, face-down, and stretched so my body was parallel to the flat sandy substrate. And in that quiet blace, I breathed slowly, completely suspended by the water, not rising, not sinking, just resting, and waiting.

Longing for the Annapurnas

While Seamus Heany and Annie Dillard come back from witnessing nature's wonders with inspired pens to compose their poetry and prose, I've neglected to give even a short synopsis of the marvelousness that was Nepal. Perhaps I have known that my words will do so little justice to a landscape that only one's own senses can appreciate. Or maybe I am still mourning the loss of my camera which had 300 photos of Pokhara, the Himalayas, and Kathmandu (it was stolen out of my checked baggage on my flight back to Bangladesh). A last excuse for my post-Nepal silence may be the most likely: I think I left a bit of myself there, and very possibly it was the bit of me that knows nature as home. Back in the city now, it's difficult to recall the words that swam through my mind as I put one foot in front of the other along the trekking trails of the Damphus region, catching the intoxicating views of the Annapurnas.
With three other teachers, I flew from Dhaka to Kathmandu on the 4th of May. The guidbooks say that the best trekking times in Nepal are September to November and March to May, so we had arrived at the tail end of the season, which to me was just perfect. This meant that in order to catch the best mountain views we had to wake up earlier than in the pre-rainy season (around 5 a.m.), but this little sleep sacrifice was well-worth the quietness on the trails. We didn't encounter the crowds of foreign trekkers on the trails that I'd expected (and dreaded). My brothers and I love hiking the New England Appalacians in May when snow still dots the landscape, because we often find ourselves the sole adventurers on the trail. Having come from the most densely populated country in the world, I was ready for some relative solitude in nature. And this was certainly the case, as each of the lodges we stumbled upon in the evenings of our three-day trek were mostly vacant and eager to put us up for $2 per night (see guesthouse below) and feed us their Nepali rice and lentils.
Our trek, the Ghandruk loop out of Pokhara, was all-too-brief, owing to some visa problems that required one of us to get back to Bangladesh a couple days before our week-long vacation ended. But even in those three days, I saw more mountainous glory than I had ever anticipated. The small taste of Himalaya was enough to seize me - heart, soul, body - and extract a promise that I'd return.


Stone walls lining the trails seemed to echo the French countryside in ways that I would not have expected to see in south Asia. But the terraced rice fields and water buffalo were always close at hand to remind us that, although yak cheese and coffee were reminiscent of the Camembert and espresso I can imagine dining on in the Alps, this land was not France or Switzerland. The chilly sunrise temperatures, too, would easily deceive me into believing we were much farther from my humid Bangladeshi home than we were.

Although the challenging climbs and breath-taking views were undoubtedly the apex of my week's vacation, the other major highlight included the time of rest at the Hotel Courtyard in Kathmandu. Run by a wonderfully generous couple named Pujan and Michelle, the Courtyard is truly a place of homecoming for weary travellers and teachers alike. Tanja Cesh had stayed there on and off for a month last October and highly recommended it to me. When I walked in and told Michelle, "You know my friend Tanja," she immediately welcomed me like a sister. Tanja was a popular guest here, for obvious reasons. Accomodation in Nepal is unbelievably inexpensive. We could have stayed comfortably in the heart of the busy tourist district Thamel for just a few dollars a night. Although with the Courtyard you pay more (came to about $28 per night per person), it was and is worth every penny. A true oasis in a smoggy developing-world city. Also, they have a lovely dog.

Our last evening in Kathmandu, we had planned to celebrate my friend Alyssa's birthday, but she was feeling a little under the weather. Pujan mentioned to me that another guest at the Courtyard, Chris Beale (British mountain photographer and 27-year Nepal expat), was to give a slideshow of the landscape and cultures of the Annapurnas. I replied that it sounded like a good way to enjoy Alyssa's birthday, and Pujan immediately insisted that all we needed to do was show up at the slideshow, and "the grilled steak, champagne, and birthday cake" would be his treat! One thing I should mention, that ties into all this, is that Alyssa has read Jon Krakauer's Into Thin Air about five times, and was re-reading it while we were in Nepal. That very evening in the cozy library at the Courtyard, with a thunder storm accompaniment to a delicious Austrailian steak meal, we ended up dining with three Everest summiteers. The most prominent of these was Argentinian Willie Benegas (of the Patagonian Brothers) who has summitted Everest 10 times and has completed all of the Seven Summits at least twice. His identical twin brother Damian had once personally funded and undertaken a rescue operation on Everest when a woman posted on the internet that she had not heard from her father in a few days since he'd ascended that ruthless height. Alyssa had read this story in the New York Times in 2008 and happened to remember the name Benegas, so sharing birthday cake with Willie was a pretty fantastic and serendipitous birthday gift.

Nepal.

In Kathmandu people had told us, "You don't come here just once. You'll come back."

Well, if my third conjecture is true -- if indeed a part of me is still somewhere in the Himalayan foothills -- then yes, I believe she will summon me again to her bask in her light and rest in her shadows, and I will gladly accept.

p.s. Photo credit to John Stanlake, and many thanks for the donation.

to the sea we went

I believe I have discovered my new favorite place in Bangladesh... Is it surprising that it involves an ocean?

Welcome to the Mermaid Eco Resort, located in the remote outskirts of Cox's Bazaar, on the "world's longest natural seabeach." The beach didn't quite make the cut for the "World's Seven Natural Wonders" a few years back, although it was in the running. For now that's alright, because it makes for less crowds, which suits Christa Thorpe. On the other hand, some well-planned eco-tourism could definitely benefit Bangladesh's economy. Could this be a potential career path for our AUW students?
The Mermaid stands apart from other Bangladeshi vacation spots that I've patroned so far, not because of any extraordinary luxuries or high-class bathrooms, but because of a little but significant thing called aesthetic. You arrive at the end of the loooong road that travels along the Bay of Bengal, southward from Cox's Bazaar town. Your little green CNG three-wheeler pulls into the "resort" and you see a group of thathed bungalows and catch your first close sniff of the tide.
Although the price feels steep for Bangladesh (the rate for a 6-person bungalow just doubled from $70 per night to $140!), I quickly realized that the plumeria flowers in the towels and the very clean white linens were a couple beautifying features that I felt willing to pay for, after several months in a city that's still a long way from Chiang Mai's trendy streets.
Furthermore, I appreciate what the place is doing in terms of trying to popularize the idea of earth-care. Even though I'm admittedly always a bit dubious of the purity of well-to-do resort-owner's intentions, I still breathed a sigh of nostalgic contentment when I saw the recycling cans below.... It had been so long since I'd seen a proper public trash can anywhere. And this was the first place in Bangladesh where i didn't see any trash on the ground for three days.
Although made from recylced natural materials, the decor was also very tasteful in almost all cases - especially in the dining area - though perhaps not including the aliens painted on the sides of a couple bungalows. We enjoyed some lovely meals in the dining area... again quite overpriced, but honestly worth it.
Also, there was coffee in the morning! Along with a gorgeous spread of coconut crepes, dal/veggies/paratha, and rice pudding our complimentary breakfast included fresh papaya juice. I should also mention that I'd been told ahead of time that I should take the chance to feel a little liberated from some of the strict clothing restrictions we women must hold to in the populated areas, even of vacation spots. The fact that we'd escaped to a resort that thus far only receives foreigners and higher-class Bangladeshis meant that I could manage some summer clothing without completely shocking anyone. That was really nice actually.

After the peaceful morning lounging, with stomachs still full, my friends (co-teachers) and I headed to the beach on a little boat that rowed us across the sound. There in the restless waves I experienced the healing effects of salty spray, sandy tumbles, and floating on the scintillating waters.

I didn't take my camera out to the beach because fishermen's children, as cute as they are, will not hesitate to make off with a foreigner's bag of goods that could be sold for some extra dowry cash.

Night transforms the Mermaid into a faerie-like world. Funky lanterns frequented by little lizards were beautiful accidents. I wonder if the lizards knew how we admired them moving around on the insides of the illuminated cloths.

The floating candles were a perfect choice, but I can't say the same thing for the music that the waiters were selecting to accompany our grilled fish dinners. It didn't take long before my friends and I had finally had enough of the explicit hip-hop remixes. I hopped up to grab my iPod from our bungalow and requested the waiters to allow Simon & Garfunkel to serenade us the rest of the evening.

I've got plenty more sunsets and flowers to throw on a facebook album (this really seems to be the land of sunsets and flowers, and I'm quite happy with that fact), but for now, I'll just leave one for my Hawaiian lass Ashley Hepburn: a plumeria that makes me think of your yard in Kailua and our unforgettable eight days there...

And here's a final one for Eunice Lee. Wherever there are sandy beaches and subsitence fishermen in Asia, there will be laughing children with salty hair and endless energy. Remember Bang Eit's kids that sunset evening in the Andaman Sea?

A $2 bus ticket and a five hour non-AC ride (that eventually got pretty hot and sticky) brought us back to Chittagong for our last few weeks of Term 2...
Well, this won't exactly be an uninterrupted 3 weeks in Chittagong. The Bandarbans hill tracts have been beckoning Alyssa and I to return to them for some time now. Next week is Easter, and a long weekend, so come nature, keep declaring your creator, so that I am without excuse not to give glory.

bow tie

One week in March, travelling by trains and buses from Chittagong to Bogra to Rajshahi to Dhaka to Srimongol and back to Chittagong, I made a bow tie over the map of Bangladesh.

My spring break a couple of weeks ago began with a trip to Bogra with AUW footing the bills. Alyssa and I had been asked to help administer the entrance exam and interview prospective students for next year's Access Academy. I'm estimating a total of 500 eligible applicants from Bangladesh have sat for the admission exam. These are the 500 whose original applications deemed them eligible. However, we can only accept 25 Bangladeshi students for the upcoming year in which we'll accept 100 new students from the 12 or so different countries represented at AUW. According to our charter under the Bangladeshi Parliament, at least 25% of our student body must be Bangladeshi.

So the interviews were meant to help us make the difficult decision of which 5% of Bangladeshi interviewees to accept. The Bogra site only had 38 students turn out to interview. I can't imagine having to see all 500 of the students at once and know how many of them will be turned away.

Seeing the type of school where my students are coming from was a great experience. It made me so grateful for our well lit classrooms, our circular seating, our white boards with multi-colored markers, and our fairly dependable technology.



From Bogra, the three of us - Alyssa, Tomomi (an Anthropology professor from AUW), and I - travelled up to Rajshahi for a very short night, at which point I got to see my parents' unfinished flat. Early the next morning we all took the Silk City train to Dhaka where one more colleague joined our growing company. The more the merrier they say. The next morning, Mom, Dad, Tomomi, Jim, Alyssa, and I went on from Dhaka up to the tea gardens in Srimangol, near Sylhet.

I won't go into description of those glorious few days in nature. The photos below cover the tea gardens and the wetlands of northeastern Bangladesh. I'll just say that for three days I was back in my natural habitat. Away from the city, breathing clean air, walking and walking, bicycling for the first time since last summer, blissing out with the birds and flowers and cows...

Nature is made to conspire with Spirit to emancipate us.

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

...Well said, Ralph.

In sum, it was so good to get away, and no sooner had I arrived back at the Chittagong train station, than Alyssa and I were already planning the next long weekend escapes to the sea and the hills.

At the same time though, it was good to be back in this place that is daily becoming more familiar and endearing. Chittagong - Chotogram - translates as "little village." Well, I saw some nice little villages up north... even got lost in one, and Chittagong is anything but that. It's home, though. And I renewed my contract, so it'll be home till at least July 2012!